Here is an interesting juxtaposition for you. Can you
imagine downsizing from 5,000 square feet to only 50 square feet? That is
living in 1% of the largest amount of space I had ever occupied. Just think about that for a few minutes and
see if you can wrap your mind around that contrast.
In the Beginning - my parent's first house - about 900 sq. ft. My first house was also about 900 sq. ft.. |
From my early youth, I remember, my parents' first home. It
was around 900 square feet of finished living space. The next house was larger,
the house after that was larger still and the next three houses were each
slightly larger with the last home my parents owned, at the time of my father's
untimely death, being the largest of the six homes they had.
I left my hometown of Clifton, New Jersey at 22 and moved to
Syracuse, New York to attend graduate school at Syracuse University. I moved to
a one-bedroom apartment. Then I moved to a two-bedroom apartment. Within less
than two years I had moved to a four level townhouse about twice the size of
the two-bedroom apartment. Then my Uncle Sam called me and I enlisted in the
Air Force. Ultimately, I went to Washington, DC where I started out with a 400
square foot efficiency apartment.
Moving Up To 5,000 Square Feet
With the Air Force behind me, a wife and the future prospect
of a family, I moved to my first house. Interestingly, it was about the size of
my parents' first house, 900 to 950 square feet. From then forward, the houses
got larger. When I moved to Winchester, Virginia in 1984 I moved into a house
with a total of about 5,000 square feet. Unfortunately, it was while living in
this house, after 18 years together, that my marriage unraveled.
The period from the end of 1989 until October 31, 2008 I lived
in five houses ranging from about 1,000 square feet to approximately 3,000
square feet. I shared part of those years with a second wife, (less than six
months) and about five years of an eight-year relationship sharing space with a
significant other and my son. But, of that 19-year period, I lived alone for
about 13 years. Of course, I worked from home all of those years, so my
businesses shared the space with me. I believe it's fair to say I occupied an
average of about 2,500 square feet during that period.
Let me say I have lived comfortably most of my 47 adult
years (to date). However, looking back, it's also fair to say I really didn't
NEED all the space I occupied. The only regret I have is that I don't have the
money it cost to live in all those over-sized living spaces. Imagine if I had
chosen to live comfortably in half the space at half the rent or mortgage
payments, half the utilities and half the upkeep and maintenance. Hindsight
doesn't count for much. There are no do-overs in life. I accept how I lived
without regret.
I can say the 400 square foot efficiency apartment in
Washington, DC was probably the most efficient living space I lived in during
my 47 years, of self-sustaining, adult life. I guess that's one of the reasons
they are called "efficiency" apartments.
Rethinking My Space Requirements
During 2006 and 2007 I began to realize, as a single guy
with the family (my, by then, adult son) long out of the nest, I really didn't
need all the space I had. I had come full circle and had created an efficiency
apartment of about 400 square feet in the master bedroom suite of the ranch
house I had on my small 49-acre horse ranch. The balance of the more than 2,100
square feet of space had been offices, recording studios, storage,
packing/shipping and "public" space. For most of preceding two years
(prior to October 31, 2008), the extra space was just costly storage space.
I no longer had any employees and I was wrapping up the book
publishing business with the intention of selling it or dismantling it. I was
also downsizing my interests and capabilities in the recording business. I was
approaching 65 and had recently survived prostate cancer a few years earlier.
My interests, dreams, goals and desires for my future life had begun to take on
new meaning. It was time to think about downsizing.
I had an interest in the nomadic, mobile lifestyle since I
was in college. With few obligations at this time of life, I was drawn to
serious consideration of this lifestyle dream. I also became aware of the
"Tiny House" movement. Believe it or not, I always attempted to run
my businesses with as small a footprint and as efficient operation as possible.
Of course, the exception to this was during my early business career when I was
thinking like an "empire builder."
The timing seemed right for making such a change. I was
tired, drained, frustrated and disillusioned by the business world, the
government, the economy and my businesses in particular. I had accumulated more
stuff than anyone should be entitled to have. And, I no longer had a spouse or
family to be responsible for. It was definitely time for a major lifestyle
change.
Downsizing To 50 Square Feet
I began to research and design a plan to wrap up the second
half and launch the third half of my life. It required downsizing the house, 49-acre
ranch, all the "stuff," minimizing my lifestyle, reducing my cost of
living/overhead, living frugally and reinventing my professional future. Little
did I realize we were at the beginning of what would become the deepest plunge
in our economy and lifestyle since the Great Depression. Whatever financial
security I had would soon vanish very rapidly. Yet, it was the most opportune
time for me to make these changes.
Ny friends', Roger & Joyce with their 40' motor coach. This became "overkill" in my plans for simple, frugal living. |
The plan included acquiring a large (40') motor coach, a
small car to tow behind and reducing my technology and recording equipment
requirements to be accommodated in a 300 to 350 square foot condo on wheels.
Ultimately, after the major part of the downsizing process and after the
economy took its toll, I realized that, while I had lost a significant amount
of my security, I was way ahead of the pack in so many ways. I had reduced my
cost of living/overhead by about 80% in one day when I left the 49-acre ranch
on October 31, 2008 and became, for all practical intents and purposes, happily
"houseless" for the first time in my 47 years of adult life including
all the expenses and encumbrances that represents.
My McVansion and its 50 sq. ft. of compact, efficient living. |
I learned how to live in small rooms and spaces at a couple
friends' houses when I wasn't traveling. The plan to acquire the behemoth motor
coach downsized to acquiring (another) 17 foot high-top conversion van and
building it into a 50 square foot, micro condo on wheels (or a mobile
"tiny house") It had, fortunately, before I made the plunge, become
very apparent that a huge motor coach, especially during this massive economic
downturn, would be an expensive white elephant.
So, I began my new life. I'm still downsizing. I still
have "stuff" left from the original downsizing in 2008. I find it
enjoyable and a constant challenge to build and refine my tiny, 17-foot (50 square
foot of living space) van, named "My McVansion," into the most
comfortable, efficient tiny house on wheels. Just imagine at one time living in
5,000 square foot and then moving into 1% of that space. In future articles,
I'll describe in more intimate detail the emotions, the challenges, the joys,
the setbacks and the self-discovery of this journey.
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